Chinese
simply choose chopsticks as their tableware rather than knife and
fork since Chinese people, under cultivation of Confucianism, consider
knife and fork bearing sort of violence, like cold weapons. However,
chopsticks reflect gentleness and benevolence, the main moral teaching
of Confucianism.
Chinese food seems to taste better eaten with chopsticks which
are the special utensil Chinese use to dine. It will be an awkward
experience for foreigners to use chopsticks to have a meal. Fortunately,
learning to eat with chopsticks is not difficult.
Using the chopstick handout,
read the following step-by-step instructions and you will effortlessly
eating with chopsticks in no time.
The method of using chopsticks is to hold one chopstick in place
while pivoting the other one to pick up a morsel. How to position
the chopsticks is the hard part. First, place the first chopstick
so that thicker part rests at the base of your thumb and the thinner
part rests on the lower side of your middle fingertip. Then, bring
your thumb forward so that the stick will be firmly trapped in place.
At least two or three inches of chopstick of the thinner end should
extend beyond your fingertip. Next, position the other chopstick
so that it is held against the side of your index finger by the
end of your thumb. Check whether the ends of the chopsticks are
even. If not, then tap the thinner parts on the plate to make them
be even.
Ok, now you are going to practice. Just place a little pressure
on the upper chopstick, the one against your index finger, to make
it pivot on the index finger while keep the bottom chopstick stationary.
Isn't it easy? After a little practice, you can use them to enjoy
your Chinese food. You’ll certainly need to take care in the first
few attempts.
Using chopsticks to eat rice is a problem to most foreigners. Generally
the tip to eat rice is to bring one's rice bowl close to one's mouth
and quickly scoop the rice into it with one's chopsticks. Since
this is difficult for foreigners, it is perfectly acceptable simply
to lift portions of rice to the mouth from the bowl held in the
other hand.
There are superstitions associated with chopsticks too. If you
find an uneven pair at your table setting, it means you are going
to miss a boat, plane or train. Dropping chopsticks will inevitably
bring bad luck. Crossed chopsticks are, however, permissible in
a dim sum restaurant. The waiter will cross them to show that your
bill has been settled, or you can do the same to show the waiter
that you have finished and are ready to pay the bill.